A young woman goes home from church crying. Word just got to
her that some of the other women have been talking about her behind her back.
Just recently, she had broken up with her boyfriend, and the rest of the women
were talking about it. They were discussing with one another why they thought
they broke up.
“I bet she talked down
to him all the time.”
“I always knew she was
too immature for him.”
“Poor guy. It’s a
shame that she must have broken his heart.”
“She didn’t deserve
him anyway.”
Gossip is a bigger problem than we acknowledge. It ravages
people, ruins reputations, and tears churches apart; all because someone
decided to inappropriately open their mouths.
Gossip is defined as, “Idle talk or rumor, especially about
the private affairs of others.”
Gossip is talking about someone just to have something to talk
about, and discussing things that aren’t any your business. It is a problem
because it spreads like wildfire and is so easily twisted and manipulated.
It doesn’t matter if the intent is malicious or not. If you’re
poking your nose into other people’s business and spreading it around, it’s
STILL wrong.
In the bible, gossip is referred to as a SIN. Too often, it’s
one of those sins that Christians have a tendency to put onto the backburner
and see it as something that really isn’t a big deal. News flash: Gossip is a
HUGE deal-whether or not you choose to see it as such.
“Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets; therefore,
do not associate with a babbler.”-Proverbs 20:19
“A dishonest man spreads strife, and a slanderer separates
intimate friends.”-Proverbs 16:28
“Whoever goes about gossiping reveals secrets, but he who is
trustworthy in spirit, keeps things covered.”-Proverbs 11:13
“They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil,
covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit,
maliciousness. They are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant,
boastful…Though they know God’s decree that those who practice such things
deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice
them.” –Romans 1:29-32
These last verses I gave in Romans are pretty frightening.
We see here that God does not consider gossip to be an unimportant sin at all!
Those who practice it and encourage it are worthy
of death!
Gossip is a tool that Satan has used so many times to ruin
people. Gossip hurts people and hurts the Church.
Most of the time, I have noticed that they gossip because they
have nothing better to do. Study your bible more; pray more; encourage others
more; develop more hobbies; do more housework…just STOP talking about others behind
their backs. Taste your words before you spit them out and always ask yourself,
“Would I want someone to talk about this if it were me?”
Older ladies-you’re supposed to be role models to us younger
women. We want to come to you when we have problems. How are we supposed to do
that if we know we’ll be met with gossip and judging? It’s not enough that you
smile at us and give us hugs every week and tell us that you’re praying for us.
You’re always telling us that actions speak louder than words. Can you please
practice what you preach?
Everything we do must be from a heart of love for others and
a will to please God (Colossians 3:17, 1st John 4:7). Gossip does
not come from this.
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